A Better Way to Spy
But there's good news for those who don't want to upgrade just yet: You, too, can enjoy the ease and freedom of automatic reports and easy to manage safety settings for your kids - both on the Web and via instant messaging! In fact, if you've got Windows XP installed on your computer and you want to try out the Parental Control aspect part of Vista, Microsoft is glad to oblige!
The site says that they can't be too specific on what their criteria for what constitutes a "dangerous conversation" is - bad people might write software to avoid being nabbed by their algorithms - but, you can more or less figure out what kind of messages are going to be marked, based on information on the site.
As more Internet horror stories about predators and other such lowlifes emerge, fewer parents have qualms about "spying" on their kids using these kinds of programs. But is it really spying? The IMSafer people say no; "if you are using AIM, MSN or Yahoo for your IM client, you already have the ability to save the conversation to a text file and pretty much do whatever you want with it," IMSafer says. And the same holds true for Parental Control; all of the data about who surfs where is already on your PC, and implementing a tool to gather the data that is already there is smart, not invasive. Even if it could be considered a violation of individual constitutional rights, though, I think most people looking to protect their kids online would agree with my mother, who, when I used to protest against some policy that I didn't approve of, would tell me (in a rather loud voice), that "this is not a democracy!"